Dear Birthmother,

Thank you for taking the time to read my letter and considering me to be the adoptive parent to your child. I understand how difficult this decision must be and I greatly admire your courage and strength.

My name is Sha (pronounced Shay). My parents and friends describe me as compassionate, fun loving, energetic, optimistic and family oriented. I am very grounded and lead a healthy lifestyle. I attribute these qualities to my parents whose unconditional love, support and traditional family values provided me with a storybook childhood.

I live in a family oriented community with plenty of activities for children, singles and families. I attend Church and stay active in the community, being a part of improvement to the area, to ensure the best environment for my child throughout her life. I feel very lucky to live in a city with such history and art and yet only a short drive to the beach or the mountains.

I own a very cozy three bedroom, two bath home in a really great neighborhood. My home is located in a quiet cul-de-sac where all of the neighborhood children enjoy riding their bikes. I have a very large fenced backyard and our neighborhood backs up to a state park and the reservoir. There are bicycle and walking tracks all around the community and the local YMCA is directly across the street from my neighborhood. I am surrounded by an array of excellent schools. Our school district is one of the best academically in the state and offers many activities for children of all ages.

I am very fortunate to have a career that allows me such flexibility and financial stability. This will allow me to be present for my child from the little things to the really big events throughout her life. Like my parents, I know the importance of parent participation and showing your child that what matters to her, matters to me.

My interests are diverse and I hope to share them with my child one day. I enjoy reading, writing, painting, remodeling homes, music, dancing, movies, shopping (especially for shoes), walking, swimming and of course playing with Champ (my dog). I also enjoy traveling and experiencing different cultures. I love the theater and visiting museums and galleries. I love amusement parks and Disneyworld. I find myself equally at home relaxing on a float in the ocean or shopping in New York. I am looking forward to the day when I can introduce my child to The Nutcracker for the first time, meet Mickey Mouse and Cinderella or help her build sandcastles while on our annual family vacation at the beach.

My goal is to give your child the life that that my own parents gave me. Through them, I have been taught what parenting requires. My promise to you is that your child will be encouraged to follow her dreams and be assured that she has the ability to accomplish whatever she may choose. I feel love and emotional support is of the utmost importance for raising a child into a healthy, emotionally sound, confident and successful adult. She will also be surrounded by extraordinary grandparents, loving family members and supportive friends who are all very excited to offer loving support and assistance in whatever need may arise.

I have always dreamed of being a mom and watching my parents share their love with their grandchild. I am certain that being a single mom will be challenging, but am confident that with the love and support of my family and friends, I will never let you or your child down. I truly admire your act of unselfish love and wish you peace with your decision. Please know that whatever decision you make will be the right one because it will be made out of the love you have for your child.

With love and admiration,

Sha

If you would like to speak to me about adopting your child or have any questions, please contact one of our Adoption Advisors at AdoptHelp, by calling (800) 637-7999 toll free.