Thank you for considering me to be a loving mother to your child. My name is Kate. I have a vibrant, happy life and a big, wonderful family – including four brothers, four sisters-in-law, nine nieces and nephews, and 30 first cousins – all nearby in the Chicago area. Your child will be the focus of my attention, and also enjoy the love and support of lots of uncles, aunts and cousins.

Loving, Supportive Family
My four brothers and I are really close and supportive of each other. They take special care to look out for me – the only girl in the family. My brothers are terrific dads to their kids, and will be active and caring uncles to your child. They all live nearby and we get together often for holidays, dinner, the kids’ sports or school events, or just to spend time together. Our large extended family is also in the area, and we spend time with them throughout the year. One of my cousins adopted two children, so we know the joy that adoption has brought to our family. Other friends adopted three children, and I’ve enjoyed being their “Aunt Kate.” Everyone in my family is supportive of my decision to adopt and eager to welcome a new baby into the family. 

A favorite tradition for my nieces and nephews (ages 3 to 18) is coming to my home for “birthday blasts,” where they stay overnight to celebrate their birthdays. We go to the zoo, beach or park – all within walking distance of my home – or stay in and bake cookies, play board games, tell stories, or sing and dance.

Every August, my aunt and uncle host a big tent party for their anniversary; they block off the street, hire a DJ, and all my cousins gather to swap stories and share in the festivities. At Thanksgiving, my brothers and their families gather at my home. We all walk to the zoo to see a special Christmas light display, and after dinner we play charades and the kids make Christmas ornaments. Enjoying these traditions and creating new ones with your child are things I look forward to with all my heart.

Wonderful Grandparents
Your child will have wonderful grandparents. Although my parents have passed away, a couple I’ve known since grade school have become my “adoptive” parents and mentors. Their kids and I grew up together, and one of their sons chose me to be Godmother to his child. They always look out for me and have taken me in as their own. We love each other dearly and they live just a few minutes away. We often have dinner together, and frequently visit at their beautiful second home in the country less than two hours away, where we enjoy dips in the pool and long fireside talks. They’re already grandparents and are excited for me to adopt so they can love and play with another grandchild.

My parents were truly wonderful. They loved each other deeply and created a stable, nurturing environment for me and my brothers. They taught us to respect others, be true to our word, and do our best. Dad taught me how to roller skate and play softball. Mom helped with math homework and would make a big pile of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for lunch. Dad became sick when I was in grade school, so Mom went back to work. But she called every day after school to check in on us. Their kids were their first priority – and mine will be too. They set a tremendous example of how to be a generous and loving parent. My brothers and I became even closer after our parents died. We stick together and give each other whatever help we need. Together, we’re excited to teach, play with, and love your child. This photo is of my four brothers and some of their kids relaxing at my brother Pat’s cottage.

My Life & Values
Being a mom has always been my dream, and I have lots of love to give a child. Your child will be raised to have strong values and compassion for others. The faith that guided me through good times and bad will guide and strengthen your child as well. Friendships are an important part of my life – some of my best friends are from Kindergarten, grade school and high school. Your child will have many friends and will learn the Golden Rule – treat others as you want to be treated.

You’ll often find me outdoors – walking through woods, sailing, playing tennis and beach volleyball, riding bikes, splashing in waves, and watching sunsets – and I look forward to doing these and other activities with your child. I even did the flying trapeze – but once was enough! Traveling and exploring new cultures is fun and eye-opening; I’ve spent time in Hawaii, Africa, Latin America, and have lived and traveled in many parts of the U.S., including Boston, Washington DC, Florida and California. I speak Spanish and have worked on many issues in the Latino community. I can’t wait to share life’s adventures with your child! In my quiet time, you’ll find me reading a book, enjoying a movie, or baking my famous chocolate chip cookies.

Your child will be encouraged to pursue their passions and make the most of the gifts they’ve been given, whether it’s music, dance, sports, art, or in school. They will have an excellent education. I was fortunate to attend a great college and law school, and practiced law for several years. I founded a consulting business, where I help social services organizations (like hospitals and drug treatment centers) achieve their goals, so they can better serve people who need them. Helping the “underdog” gives my work meaning. My business is very successful, rewarding, and more fun and creative than law. Plus, it gives me a lot of flexibility during the day and plenty of time to love and raise a child.

Why I'm Adopting
In my late 20’s, I married a man I started dating at 19. He was a good person, but we had different views of what we wanted in life. It was a very hard decision to leave that relationship. Having children was so important to me, and I knew that getting divorced would delay that dream, but it was the right decision.

Over the last several years, I’ve created a happy life, a happy heart and a happy home. Perhaps marriage is in the future, but he’d have to be the right one and would have to love my child as his own. But my first priority is becoming a mother. I want to be a happy mother and live the best life I can for my child and me. I love my nieces and nephews dearly, but there’s part of me – the “mom in me” – that longs for a child of my own to love and cherish every day.

Fabulous Neighborhood & How I'll Care for Your Child
Imagine your child in a vibrant city in a beautiful neighborhood, right next to a huge 1000-acre park, a zoo, a playground and a great beach. Minutes from excellent schools, museums, sports fields and music venues. Surrounded by a large, loving and fun family of uncles, aunts, and cousins. Cared for at home with the support of family and friends.
So much good is in store for your baby!

Thank you for considering adoption for your child, and for considering me as a mother. If you’d like, we can talk about ways for you to share in this journey through the years. Either way, your child will know how much you love them, and that you wanted them to have the best life possible. I have so much love to give, a stable home, and a wonderful supportive family. Know that your baby will be showered in love. Please call one of my Adoption Advisors at AdoptHelp toll free at 1-800-637-7999.

With great love and respect,
Kate