Choose A Family : Parent Profile
Carrie
Dear Birthmother,
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my letter. I want to commend you on your courageous decision. You will fulfill someone’s dream and make a family very happy.
I have wanted to adopt a child for several years. I have had a couple of relationships in the past but neither has lead to marriage or a long-time commitment. I always knew that whether or not I met Mr. Right, I would be a mom. In fact, I can’t imagine not being a mom, and I prefer to build my family through adoption.
I’ve been preparing for this journey for several years. A few years ago I took a new job that is more flexible and less stressful. And just a few months ago, I moved from the city to a neighborhood in the suburbs that is very family-friendly.
I am so excited to start this next chapter in my life. I will give your child love and praise, a stable environment, and lots of fun. It is somewhat difficult to put into words describing the love I want to share, but I will try my best to convey who I am and how I envision my life as a mom.
About me
Luckily, the things that I’m most passionate about can easily be shared with a child. I love nature, animals, and spending as much time outdoors as possible. I hike and ride my bicycle often. I love to garden, and grow the tastiest tomatoes. I also play on a sand volleyball team and adult kickball team.
I walked dogs at an animal shelter for about a year and a half, and I’m still surprised that I didn’t bring any of the dogs home. I plan to have a dog someday but want to wait until the little one is a few years older. I do have sweet and cuddly cat, Zoe.
I love children, and I’m a bit of a kid at heart. After my first year in college, I was a nanny in Germany for a year. I had so much fun with the kids that year. The little things were so satisfying like showing them how to tie their shoes or teaching them to swim. I was also a Big Sister for two years. My Little and I would go roller-skating, visit museums, or just hang out and make pizza and watch movies. Eventually she started asking me advice about boys or school, and that’s when I felt the experience was most rewarding.
I’ve traveled quite a bit in the past. I’ve been to Europe a few times including a trip to England to visit family that lives there. I also spent two months in China for my job last year for a one-time training assignment.
I found a great way to experience my love for nature, travel, and giving back, and participated in a couple of volunteer vacations working in the national parks in Alaska and Hawaii. We camped in the park and worked during the days on the hiking trails and doing other odd jobs. It was strenuous manual labor, which was quite a change from my office job, but it was fun getting my hands dirty.
I feel that these experiences are far more rewarding than acquiring material things. I want to provide my child with these types of experiences that incorporate nature, giving back to the community, and learning and experiencing different cultures.
Family and Friends
I grew up in the suburbs of Kansas City. I have one younger brother. He and my sister-in-law live in Michigan and have a three-year-old son. We visit each other several times a year. My nephew likes it when Aunt Carrie is around because I’ll climb up on the playground equipment with him, give him piggyback rides, or just spend quiet time reading books.
I have many fond memories of my childhood. My family has always been a bit goofy and humor was always prevalent. My parents were always supportive of my decisions. They also taught me not to try to be like everyone else and concentrate on what makes me happy. My mom passed away about six years ago, and my dad lives just ten minutes from me. He is retired and excited about spoiling a grandchild. I take after my dad in that I’m pretty easy-going and handle stress well. My parents taught me through example to be open-minded, accepting of all types of people, and to always do what’s right even if it’s not easy. I will pass on these values when I’m a parent.
I have an aunt and uncle and two cousins that live near by, and my cousins each have young children. I also have extended family in Omaha, which is just three hours away, and usually spend Thanksgiving there. A group of about thirty family and friends comes from all over the country, and we have Thanksgiving dinner in art gallery downtown, which is owned by a relative. It’s really one of my favorite family gatherings of the year.
Adoption is a part of my family. One of my cousins in Omaha adopted two girls from China several years ago, and I have another cousin close by who is currently adopting a child from South Korea. It’s nice to have this common bond.
I have many friends close by and have kept contact with some friends that I’ve known since I was a kid. Most of my friends have young children and are already talking about playdates and suggesting books I should read. Since I’ve lived in the same area my entire life, I have a large network of family and friends close by that I can call on for support.
Home and Community
I live just outside of Kansas City, MO in a suburb known for its quaint, older homes and tree-lined streets. My house is cute and cozy, and it’s just a few minutes walk from a great park. Young families flock to this area because it’s quiet and safe and has somewhat of a small town feel. People are friendly and look out for each other.
While I live in the suburbs, I still live close to the city. I like to experience the history and culture of the city, and it has a lot to offer including art galleries, museums, and major league sports.
The county I live in was ranked third by Forbes.com as “the best place in America to grow up” because of the low crime, low cost of living, nationally recognized schools, and thousands of acres of green space. The city is very affordable especially compared to some places on the coasts. We have four seasons here so your child can enjoy watching the flowers bloom in the spring, swim in the summer, roll in the leaves in the fall, and build snowmen in the winter.
Education and Work
I have an analytical mind and have always been good with numbers and finances, which lead me to grad school to get an MBA. Education was always encouraged in my family as it provides opportunities in life. I want to stress education and learning from a very early age as a parent. I will encourage this not only through formal education but also through life experiences. I also want to expose my child to art and music at an early age because I feel that makes life so much more enriching.
I work as an accountant at an engineering firm. My company is very family-friendly. Many people have children, so it’s not a big deal to leave early or stay home with a sick child. They are supportive of adoption and even provide financial support for adoption costs. In addition to a generous amount of vacation days, they offer flexible schedules, and I currently have every other Friday off as well as the weekends. Since so many people have kids, they sponsor a lot of events for families such as picnics, bowling, and baseball games.
In closing
Thanks again for reading my letter. I’m so excited to be a mom and share my life with a child. I’m emotionally, physically, and financially ready to be parent. I’m confident that I can provide your child an abundance of love, happy experiences and a stable, positive home environment.
If you like to speak with me about adopting your child or have any questions for me, please contact your Adoption Advisors at AdoptHelp by calling 1-800-637-7999 toll-free.
My favorites
Color – Green
Season – Fall
Candy – Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups
TV show – So You Think You Can Dance?
Holiday – Thanksgiving
Sport - Volleyball
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