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Video Success Stories

We love our daughter…

We love our daughter and we are all so happy to have her in our family. When we first were looking for the right ‘agency’ to help us with our adoption, I came across AdoptHelp on the internet and instantly felt good and excited to look more into AdoptHelp. I said to myself, ‘They are the ones.’ Since I am very cautious and wanted to do a good research I continued to look into other adoption agencies, lawyers, facilitators etc. When it came down to it, my initial instinct was correct and we decided on AdoptHelp. I love the professionalism, attention, friendliness, and efficiency of the AdoptHelp Staff.

The great thing about working with AdoptHelp…

The great thing about working with AdoptHelp is that I don’t have to worry about anything. AdoptHelp gets the right people involved, (such as those involved at the hospital) and those individuals are responsible, professional and efficient. All the details were taken care of and all we had to do was get ourselves to our baby and love her!

We had so many failed adoptions that we almost quit. That is, until we met the staff of AdoptHelp…

We had so many failed adoptions that we almost quit. That is, until we met the staff of AdoptHelp. They were wonderful to work with and supportive of our being gender specific. The adoption of our two daughters has fulfilled all of our dreams.

The wonderful work of the AdoptHelp staff has made me very happy…

The wonderful work of the AdoptHelp staff has made me very happy, as well as so many others. You have touched many lives and enriched many souls. Thank you again for the most precious gift – my son!

They were always available for consultation and, when problems arose, they helped guide us…

They were always available for consultation and, when problems arose, they helped guide us through them. They proved well-informed, pro-active, and knowledgeable in all aspects of adoption law and worked in a professional and compassionate manner.

AdoptHelp works as a team and always made time for us…

AdoptHelp works as a team and always made time for us, and never did we feel like just another number in a bureaucratic mess. The bundle of joy we hold in our arms every day makes the whole thing worth it.

After meeting with three organizations…

After meeting with three organizations, we decided without any reservation that AdoptHelp would make our dreams come true. We signed up, labored over our Dear Birth Mother letter, and within six months we became parents to our wonderful son.

My AdoptHelp case worker became my best friend…

My AdoptHelp case worker became my best friend and my rock. I could call her if I needed anything. She was always there for me. – Birth Mother

Special thanks to the AdoptHelp staff for helping me…

Special thanks to the AdoptHelp staff for helping me through a difficult time in my life and providing me with all the help and services I needed.  I also can never thank you enough for helping me find the perfect mommy and daddy for my son to call his own.  Nothing can every repay the gratitude I have for you all.

I want to thank you and your staff for giving me the help…

I want to thank you and your staff for giving me the help and strength to stand up again after I had fallen. With your help I was able to not only make the hardest decision of my life but to live with it and feel at peace with the choices I have made. I cannot tell you how much that peace of mind means to me. Thank you.

We so appreciate the integrity and professionalism…

We so appreciate the integrity and professionalism of AdoptHelp’s services!  Our case worker was especially professional, enthusiastic and patient with us. When we are ready for a second child we will defiantly be using AdoptHelp’s services again!

After about 12 different websites, I found AdoptHelp. After reading everything the site…

After about 12 different websites, I found AdoptHelp. After reading everything the site had to offer, I sat mesmerized by the life one of these couples could provide for my child, the life I knew I couldn’t. I will always be thankful for AdoptHelp. They erased my worst fears and helped me make the best out of a hard situation. – Birth Mother

I absolutely loved my AdoptHelp caseworker. She was not only my personal guide through adoption…

I absolutely loved my AdoptHelp caseworker. She was not only my personal guide through adoption, she was my advocate. I will never forget what a special place AdoptHelp is. – Birth Mother

My AdoptHelp case worker became my best friend…

My AdoptHelp case worker became my best friend and my rock. I could call her if I needed anything.  She was always there for me.

I have watched you pour your heart into your job, helping women and families…

I have watched you pour your heart into your job, helping women and families, and you are so good at what you do. I only hope that someday I can find a way to be as positive a force in someone’s life as you have been in mine, and I am sure countless others. Thank you.

The care and concern I heard in your voice…

The care and concern I heard in your voice, the answers and expediency which you gave me and the secure felling I felt with you-I cannot begin to tell you what that has meant to me.

I want to say thank you to you and your staff for making all of this as easy as possible…

I want to say thank you to you and your staff for making all of this as easy as possible for me! Y’all have been great to me. I can’t say thank you enough.

I can’t thank you enough…

I can’t thank you enough for all you have done for me to help me through my difficult decision. You were there for me 24/7 and I will never forget just how wonderful you all were to me. –

I truly love my life today, and have found the peace within…

I truly love my life today, and have found the peace within I have so longed for, it seems my whole life. With the help of AdoptHelp, I can go to bed each night with an easy heart, confident in my choice of a parent for my daughter. Bless you guys.  

They were always there when I needed something…

They were always there when I needed something or when I just wanted to talk. They respected my wishes and didn’t pressure me at all. I know my decision was the right one and I was lucky to find people like I did at AdoptHelp to get me through it all and feel good in the end.

I called AdoptHelp very early on in my pregnancy…

 I called AdoptHelp very early on in my pregnancy. They didn’t belittle me but instead were supportive of my decision. Thank you for treating me like a person.

I know that my child is in good hands…

I know that my child is in good hands with the right people. I don’t have any regrets. Thanks AdoptHelp.

You never made me feel uneasy or ‘judged’…

You never made me feel uneasy or ‘judged’ and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this.

I want to thank you and your staff for giving me the help and strength…

I want to thank you and your staff for giving me the help and strength to stand up again after I had fallen. With your help I was able to not only make the hardest decision of my life but to live with it and feel at peace with the choices I have made. I cannot tell you how much that peace of mind means to me. Thank you.

I can honestly say that this was the most difficult decision I’ve ever had to make…

I can honestly say that this was the most difficult decision I’ve ever had to make, but because of AdoptHelp and the wonderful couple I found through them, I feel at peace. I know they will give her the life I couldn’t and for that I am forever grateful!!!
Thank you AdoptHelp for being there for me, you’ve made choosing adoption an amazing experience!!!!

Mandy S.(Birth Mom)

Throughout the entire process, my [case] worker was so kind…

Throughout the entire process, my [case] worker was so kind, supportive and informative. I honestly wouldn’t have made it through this time without AdoptHelp! Not only did I find my son the perfect family through them but they made sure all my needs, emotionally and financially were met. The process went very smoothly from being matched to signing the adoption papers! As a birth mother, I highly recommend AdoptHelp.

Amber J.

I am a birth mother who worked with AdoptHelp and highly recommend…

I am a birth mother who worked with AdoptHelp and highly recommend them. They were amazingly supportive and handled every detail of my adoption plan. I found an amazing family with their help. I am very proud of my decision to place my baby for adoption. I still stay in touch with my case worker and highly recommend AdoptHelp to any birth parent considering adoption.

Jessica M.

For something so hard and emotional AdoptHelp has been amazing…

For something so hard and emotional AdoptHelp has been amazing and we found the perfect path to this adoption thanks to them. I never thought this process could’ve went this smooth, considering all the emotions and ups and downs that comes along with it but in the end we are happy with our decision and know it was best for not only the baby, but my babies, and the wonderful family we made happy.

Maxine (birth mother)
Chris (biological father, who stood by my side)

Read testimonials from AdoptHelp clients…

Leslie & Alicia

My partner and I dreamed of having a family for a long time. I couldn’t seem to get pregnant. We explored what seemed to be every avenue and I had just about lost hope. We had decided that adoption was the way that we wanted to go but were afraid that either the powers that be would keep it from happening or that we would never be chosen by a birth mother.

The wait wasn’t easy. Honestly, it seemed like forever. The team at the AdoptHelp reassured us repeatedly that it would happen when the match was right. When we talked to Erin, (who would become our Birth Mother) we liked her instantly. It seemed that what they told us was true. When it was right, we’d know it. We had counseling from the center. They suggested that we contact Erin during the waiting period just before the baby was to be born. It was then that we had a chance to talk to our birth grandmother, Mary. There were laughs, tears and reassurances shared. Although our families are far apart and different from each other, we felt a special bond develop with Erin and her mother. When we met them in the hospital on the day that Emma was born it was strangely comfortable to be with the family that made ours complete. The funny thing is, that long, long waiting period before our beautiful daughter was in our arms was only about 9 months.

It’s been almost four months since she was born and our eyes still fill with tears of joy when we look into hers. We have never been happier.

Thank You,

Bob & Teri

It is such a pleasure to hear from you. We hope everything is going great at AdoptHelp and as well at your homes. Words can’t explain how happy the three of us are.

Looking back seven years ago when we were selected, it was like winning the 100 million dollar lotto, tax free. Ronnie is a bright, happy little boy with a lot of love in his heart. He is doing extremely well in first grade and we are very proud of him. He did a photo shoot with a friend of ours who opened up a chain of photographic stores around the country.One of Ronnie’s pictures is on display (above with the suitcase.)

For those of you who feel that the process is not happening as fast as what you would like, be patient, it will happen and it’s worth it every minute.

You have made a good choice in AdoptHelp of California. They are the best team to complete your family.

Sincerely,

Nicole, Micah & Max

First off I would like to say thank you to my caseworker. They were always there when I needed something or when I just wanted to talk. They respected my wishes and didn’t pressure me at all. I know I would have never been able to place the baby if they were not there helping me along the way. I started out choosing a family. I ended up choosing the very first family I called. I know I made the right choice.

I could not have asked for better people. When I was about 6 months pregnant, I moved from Colorado to California to have the baby out there. During this time I got to really know the adoptive family. They sort of became part of my family. I will always consider them my family. I had brought my 18 month old out to California with me also. When the baby was born in September, the family were all there right by my side. My caseworker called me at the hospital to see if I was ok.

That phone call really meant a lot to me. I was always reassured that they cared about not only the baby but about me. Right now I am back in Colorado and doing great. I don’t regret anything for a second. I know my decision was the right one and I was lucky to find people like I did at AdoptHelp to get me through it all and feel good in the end.

Josephine

Hello. My name is Josephine. I am a Birth Mother and I recently placed my baby for adoption.

When I found out that I was four months pregnant, I was devastated. This news, was not good news in my situation. I became instantly confused, angry and scared. I kept repeating to myself “Why me? How could this happen? What will I do?”

After all of the denial, reality set in. I needed to make an important decision. Nobody knew I was pregnant, except my boyfriend and I. I thought aobut terminating the pregnancy. But as soon as that came to mind, I rolled into tears. I could not take a life just to make mine better. You see I have two beautiful children. I could barely meet their needs.

A month went by and I knew I didn’t have much time left. I was starting to show and I needed to plan a future for this unborn child and for myself. I was alone one day, going over everything aloud in my mind. Through tears and the unknown, I began to skim through the Yellow Pages. That’s when I called AdoptHelp. I spoke to a wonderful lady who knew exactly what I was going through. It felt so good to have someone who had the answers I was looking for.

I decided to place my unborn child for adoption. I knew this was the best option I could make that would most benefit this child to come. I needed to determine whether to have an open or closed adoption. Everyone has different feelings about this subject. Whichever one “you” feel comfortable with, is the right one. I felt that an open adoption would be the best way for me to go. So I decided to select and meet the adoptive parents.

Once I was sure of my decision to place, it was time to pick out the adoptive parents. The first couple I saw, I knew they were the perfect mommy and daddy for this little one to become a part of. Time has now past and I have made it through the healing period. I’m finally meeting some goals I made while I was pregnant. I can honestly say “I did the right thing”. I’m happy and I am going on. Most of all I will always remember the joy on my adoptive parents’ faces when their dreams of having a child finally came true.

No matter what type of adoption you choose, keep in mind you are not giving up a child. Instead, you are giving a gift! An awesome gift of “Life” to two people who are missing the one thing that only you and I can give.

Crystal

Hello. My name is Crystal. I want to start this off by telling you that you are not alone in what you are going through. I too found myself facing an unplanned pregnancy. Alone and scared I would cry myself to sleep at night wondering why and how this could have happened to me. What was I going to do? This only happened to other people.

I thought briefly of ending the pregnancy. But see I’m a mother of a perfect little girl, so the thought of ending this baby’s life was unbearable. That’s when I contacted AdoptHelp. Everyone was so easy to talk to and through them I met the two most wonderful men I know.

Each person will feel very different things when it comes time to decide what kind of adoption they want, open or closed. I chose to go with an open adoption. At the time of me writing this it has only been 2 weeks since I placed my daughter for adoption. I am working through my pain now and working on starting my life over. I still cry a lot, but when I think of the gift I gave these wonderful people it makes it worth it in a way.

The one thing I can tell you and I know this for a fact is it does get better. It stops hurting so much and eventually you stop getting angry for not thinking of your child every single minute of every single day. You begin to remember why you did it and you also stop hating yourself through the pain. I know this because when I was 18 years old (6 years ago) I placed my first born son for adoption.

You have to remind yourself that you are not a bad person. In fact, you are a greater person for taking the bumpy road rather than the smooth and easy one. What you are doing is the most courageous and selfless thing a person can do. Not only are you giving yourself the chance to start over, you’re giving your baby the chance to have the kind of life that you wish you could give them but know you can’t at this point in your life. And last but not least, you are giving two people (or one person) who cannot give themselves the most precious gift, the gift of life … a Family.

I want you to know I understand what you are going through. I know it’s not easy and even though I don’t know you, I want you to know that you have a friend for life in me. If you ever need to talk or need a shoulder to cry on, I’m only a phone call away. Just call AdoptHelp and they will make sure we get in contact with each other.

Thank you!

Matt, Diane & Nicholas

Nicholas is such a blessing and parenthood is everything I imagined it would be. He is growing up so fast. He already is crawling and standing up on his own, and has 4 teeth. He has the most amazing smile and cutest laugh, we love him so much.

Thank you for everything you have done for us, without all of you we may have never experienced the greatest joy of our lives; Nicholas.

Thank you,

Words truly cannot express the gratitude…

Words truly cannot express the gratitude that I have for you and all the work, support, guidance and patience you had with me and/or gave to me during my journey to motherhood. I will be forever grateful for the part you played as my daughter found her way to me and into my heart …. You have an amazing team!

AdoptHelp was amazing…

AdoptHelp was amazing.  They handled every aspect of my adoption plan.  My case worker was nothing short of AMAZING.  I love the family I chose and still keep in contact with them and my case worker.

Gratian & Megan

We, Megan and I, wanted to express how happy we are with the entire staff at AdoptHelp.  After struggling with infertility for so long, we began to lose hope that we would ever have a family.  We had talked about adoption, but struggled with the thought of giving up on a biological child.  After numerous failed IVF’s, disappointment and heartbreak, we took a serious look at adoption.  We went to seminars and spent hours on the Internet researching.  We chose to sign up with a large agency.  Although we adopted a handsome and healthy baby boy we encountered many issues, and it left us feeling as though we may not want to adopt again.

We always wanted two or three children, and once again decided we should try and adopt one more time, however this time trying to find something that fit us better.  We researched and called agencies, facilitators and attorneys.  We called AdoptHelp and were able to speak with Mark directly, he answered all of our questions and we actually felt as though he truly had our, as well as the birth mother’s, best interests at heart.

The next day we called Mark back and signed up to adopt once again. It took us about two months to get our home study and “Dear Birth Mother” letter put together.  Within six weeks we were presented with an opportunity to adopt, but after some deliberation and words of wisdom from Mark, we felt the situation was not right for us.  Mark reassured us not to worry, that the right situation would come along.  He was right, within a month we adopted another handsome and healthy baby boy.

We were amazed how smooth the adoption went. The hospital, about a three hour drive for us, knew we were coming and welcomed us when we arrived.  We had two or three calls from the AdoptHelp staff while on our way confirming that everything had been taken care of and the baby was healthy.  Mark’s representatives were at the hospital the first thing the next morning and all of the legalities were taken care of.  We were amazed by the honesty, professionalism and care he and his entire staff showed.  Our experience with AdoptHelp was as stress free as it could possibly be which allowed us to actually enjoy the experience of adopting.

Our story does not end there, however.  Recently we received a call from the birth mother of our oldest son, telling us she was pregnant and would like us to adopt this baby as well.  Of course, panic set in.  The next morning we awoke early and it seemed like an eternity waiting for the time so we could call Mark.  We called and Mark very calmly congratulated us and came up with an adoption plan.  We started another home study and literally just finished it the day before we got the call that our birth mother was in labor….in another state… a month early.  We called and left a message for Mark, loaded the boys in the car and started driving at around 6 AM.  Within an hour or so we got a call back from Olga and she was working on getting our home study and all the other paper work finished up.  With this baby being early it changed our original adoption plan and we were going to end up having to stay in another state for up to a month.  At this point in time we did not really need any extra worries, when we spoke with Mark he said he had a couple of ideas and he’d give us a call in the morning but in the meantime he said, “Don’t worry about, it just enjoy your baby.”  The next morning he gave us three options. We agreed on the one that was best not only for us but for the birth mother as well.  The Interstate Compact on the Placement Children (ICPC) was completed and we were clear to come home with our new baby girl within 8 days.  Our family is now complete with G.W. (2 1/2 yrs), Dominic (1 yr), and Addison (1 month).

We would like to extend our thanks to the entire AdoptHelp staff, especially Olga and Mark who went above and beyond to make everything work out perfectly, and once again allow us to enjoy the experience of adoption with Addison and her big brothers.

Thank You So Much,

Brittany & Jon

My husband Jon and I were waiting for the “perfect time” to start a family. After being together nearly 8 years and married more than 3, the time seemed right. You can imagine our shock and disappointment when we learned we would not be able to conceive naturally. But instead of being disappointed and sad, we simply leaned on our faith… believing God had a plan to place the perfect child in our arms.

Coincidentally, close friends were matched and awaiting the birth of their son thanks to AdoptHelp, and we took their recommendation and gave them a call. That decision proved to be one that changed our life forever. Just 10 weeks after learning we could not conceive, we were matched with our beautiful birthmother. One week later we flew to meet her in person, and began a friendship that continues today. Our son Grayson Gabriel Mitchell was born 11 weeks after we were matched, and we cannot begin to express in words the joy and gratitude in our hearts, both to AdoptHelp and our birthmother.

We are blessed to have been able to speak with her several times a week by phone during our match period, and flew to her state for delivery day… arriving at the hospital just 15 minutes before our son was born (two days early)! What a story we will have to tell him about the mother who loved him enough to want for him what she was not capable of giving, and to seek that out through AdoptHelp.

When we left her city to fly home with the baby, we brought with us memories both on film and in our hearts that will last a lifetime and help paint for Grayson a story of love that began with his birthmother’s call to AdoptHelp and ended when she placed him in our arms. God Bless the entire AdoptHelp staff.

The gift you give to childless couples is immeasurable and precious. You will remain in our hearts and prayers, along with all the waiting families. To them, we say… your match will come. Trust in the process, in AdoptHelp, and in God. As with us, He will place the perfect child in your arms.

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