Hello! We are Pablo and Simon from the San Francisco Bay Area of California. We know how important this decision is for you and we would like to start by thanking you for taking the time to get to know us.

Since the beginning of our relationship 10 years ago, we have always dreamed of becoming parents; creating a warm, supportive home where a child, like yours, will experience a lifetime of being loved and guided.

As a couple, we both bring unique qualities to the table. From music and learning to sport and healthy living we both cherish the dream of creating a balanced family unit where we can share these qualities and opportunities to create the best memories.

Our commitment to you is this; we promise to love and cherish every moment of the gift you are providing and will ensure that there is never a doubt that from your arms to ours – there is unconditional love where our future child can grow, learn and become anything they wish.

We grew up on different sides of the world and found each other in San Francisco 10 years ago. We were introduced to each other online, and instantly connected over a shared love for exercise, food and travel. On our second date, a hike, we were so fascinated to learn about each other that we got lost on a trail! Minutes turned into hours but the conversation (and laughs!) never dulled. It all felt so easy and to this day we still laugh at this memory and feel like the luckiest people to have found one another.

A year later, Pablo proposed under the moonlight on a warm night at Simon’s family’s home and we married and celebrated in San Francisco with close friends and family. It was perfect!

Family means the world to us and we are lucky to spend as much time with them as we do. Pablo is an identical twin and is one of six kids. We are lucky that a majority of Pablo’s family are here in the Bay Area. Simon has one sister, who as well as their parents live in Ireland and come to visit often.

As a couple, we continue to take the time to try new things and to learn from one another as we move through life and experience all it has to offer.

I was born and raised in Dublin, Ireland to two incredible parents, who have shaped me into the man I am today. I grew up in a home which was warm and loving whilst structured and balanced.

Growing up in Ireland, I was very focused on doing well at school and played a multitude of team sports from Hockey and Tennis to Rugby and Running. When I hit my early teenage years, I discovered horses and spent most of my spare time at the stables. I competed through college and to this day still have my childhood horse as my screen saver! This journey provided me with an incredible circle of friends as well as a healthy mindset and outlet through my High School and College years. I would love nothing more than to share this love of horses (and all animals) with our kiddo one day.

I moved to the San Francisco Bay Area in 2012 for what was supposed to be for one year to gain international work experience. However, all of my big ‘life’ plans quickly changed when I met Pablo! Outside of traveling, I love to be social with friends as well as staying active and learning new things. I joined the Peloton (exercise) world during the pandemic, and have learned to love the on-demand spin classes as well as yoga and strength training from home. This year, I decided that it would be ‘fun’ to push my limits and to learn how to rock climb. Although I am terrible at it, I really enjoy that it pushes me in both a physical and mental sense.

I have a degree in Food Science and work for a food manufacturer based in the San Francisco Bay Area and for them, I oversee manufacturing operations for production facilities across Northern California. I am lucky to work for a family owned company with a family first culture, as well as flexible working hours and family health benefits. As we navigate through this next chapter, with Pablo working from home we have discussed the option that I take time away from work so that we can both be present as we raise our future child.

I have met many people in my life, but never a person like Simon. He is a strong, confident man, and yet he is the most gentle, kind, and caring man that I have ever met. Simon’s combination of charm, warmth, and wit creates a bright light that people naturally gravitate towards. Everyone wants to be friends with him and here I was thinking that it's because of his Irish accent! :D Not only is he easy to be around but he is intelligent and the most supportive partner that I could have wished for.

Being around Simon’s family is so easy. They are loving and caring and sure do love to have good fun. Not to mention Simon definitely got his cooking skills from his mom! They are both terrific cooks. You can give Simon three ingredients to make a dish and he will end up making something scrumptious! Just like his dad Simon does not mind rolling up his sleeves and doing some handy work around the house. This has come in handy more times than not!

Watching Simon interact with my sisters as well as his young cousins and godchildren makes my heart melt. They adore him, and love spending time together. He just gets it.

I may not be Irish, but I sure found the ‘luck of the Irish’ by marrying my best friend.

I spent the earlier parts of my childhood between Mexico and Texas. I grew up very close to my grandparents and many cousins who I am still very close with to this day. When I was thirteen my family and I moved to California. My twin brother, Joaquin and I had a great childhood as we were exposed to many cultures and life experiences. From chasing snakes to collecting banana slugs under our beds, we were always getting up to mischief and were known as the wild ones! As we entered our teenage years, we learned to channel our energy and passion for music into musical performances as well as acting on stage in numerous plays both locally and nationally.

I went on to graduate from college in the San Francisco Bay Area where I obtained my bachelor’s degree. Throughout my schooling I was heavily involved in volunteering, school government, theater and played as many sports as I could. I enjoy being around people and love to create connections and meaningful relationships. For this reason, I feel lucky to have found my niche within my industry as a public affairs professional for a Tech company in the San Francisco Bay Area. This role is extremely fulfilling to me, and is more of a passion than a job. I am lucky that my company is very family focused and flexible with a work from home schedule and who are excited for me to become a dad.

I love being physically active outdoors with Simon and our dog Melvin, doing something musical, and taking care of the garden. This year, I have learned to play the piano and love getting lost in the notes! Outside of work, I am involved in a non-profit organization whose aim is to represent and provide a voice to minority groups who need help in our community. I also find joy in preserving and protecting our local parks and natural landscapes in Northern California by serving on different local boards to ensure that we will always have a place to hike and wander.

Where do I begin… Pablo is the most loving, balanced and positive person that I have ever come across. From the first time I met him, I became addicted to his energetic personality, striking blue eyes and an infectious smile that turns the bluest moments into the brightest. Pablo has an incredible natural ability to light up a room, and from the first time that I met him, I knew he was special. Pablo is uniquely driven and has a remarkable ability to succeed in all things that he puts his mind to. He is incredibly smart, a shockingly good dancer and is musically talented. Give him 5 minutes with a musical instrument of your choice and he will have everyone gathered around him singing and dancing along! He is that guy that everyone wants to know.

Pablo comes from a big family and from our second date made it known that he has always dreamed of having a family of his own. He is gifted when it comes to children, who are immediately drawn to him as he enters the room. As my partner, he is loyal and incredibly caring and supportive in ways that I never knew possible. I genuinely feel like the luckiest guy on earth to call him my husband, and know that he is going to make the world’s best dad.

We are both very fortunate to have close connections with our families near and far. Simon has two incredible parents Ann and John, and one sister, Katie who works in banking technology in Ireland and who is a big part of our lives. We travel to visit each other in Ireland and California throughout the year which makes for lots of fun family trips and incredible memories. A typical Sunday for us starts with a Skype to chat through our week with Simon’s parents and Katie. Even though we live in different parts of the world, we have found ways to stay close. Simon has two godchildren, Eli (5) and Leo (6) who we love to spoil and spend time with.

Pablo’s parents separated when they were very young and both formed new and healthy family units soon after. Pablo is lucky to have a large extended family including one twin brother Joaquin and four sisters, Isabella and Montse who live close by while Carolina and Mariana live in Mexico who we visit throughout the year. We enjoy spending time with each other at our homes, cooking and catching up. Joaquin also works in Tech., while his sisters are in elementary, middle and high school. We have always loved bringing Pablo’s sisters with us on adventures and to our home for movie nights!
It’s so convenient that Simon’s mom, Ann is a retired nurse and that a majority of Pablo’s family live close by so they will be able to offer some help when we become dads. Our parents are as excited to become grandparents as we are to become parents!

We typically spend all major holidays together, with one Christmas in Ireland and the following in California where all of us come together at our home.

We rescued Melvin, our smart and confident 7-year-old fox terrier back in 2015. He is a very active dog and accompanies us on runs and hikes each week. Melvin has learned to pick up after himself (seriously!) and has a doorbell of his own to let us know when he wants to come inside. He is the most gentle and loving animal who adores people of all ages and who is always welcomed in our friends and family’s homes. He is particularly good with kids and has the ability to match their energy! He will make a great companion for our future kiddo.

Our home is nestled in the cul de sac of a quiet and safe neighborhood which is located close to numerous trails with many great public and private schools nearby. We are very lucky to be so close to Pablo’s family as well as being surrounded by incredible neighbors who genuinely care about each other. Our home is cozy, with lots of space to grow into and has a large back yard with great views, while lots of privacy. Living in the Bay Area, we are in close proximity to almost everything. We can’t wait to spent our mornings strolling down to the local parks and playgrounds or taking off for a weekend away in the snow or by the sea!

Thank you for taking the time to learn a little about us. This process of becoming parents means the world to us and words cannot express how excited we are to start this journey with you.

Our goal as parents is to give your child an upbringing full of excitement, happiness, learning and cherished memories. We want nothing more than to open up a world of opportunities to allow them to pursue their dreams.

Again, our commitment to you is this; we promise to love and cherish every moment of the gift you are providing and will ensure that there is never a doubt that from your arms to ours – there is unconditional love.

- Simon and Pablo